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Monday, March 5, 2012

Cheating?


Cheating is still the same and always will be, when someone combines the word cheating and two or three people’s names together, there is usually a problem. Sometimes it can mean they were cheating on a test or possibly a game of some sort. The thing is that there are many different variations of people cheating. Some people only consider that is a girl/boy has a bf/gf and they sexually touch another person, they would be cheating. Some say its anything like kissing, maybe even just talking to them as well. To me cheating is “If it has to be hidden… It’s cheating” because in a relationship there mustn’t be any secret what so ever, because in a relationship you need 100% commitment and trust in each other.
     Those that are very lenient and go as far as saying touching is considered cheating then that’s understandable because there might be some other cultures that conventionally are very touchy and go as far as kissing as a greeting. It would be understandable to have such a view where a ‘sex’ touch standard would be implied. Such as some of the few European counties like Spain who greets people by a slight peck on the cheek.
    Then there are those cultures or people who view just kissing as cheating, because after all in most Asian societies, women are supposed to be very enclosed and distant. They are taught only to obey the husband or father and to keep out of men affairs. 

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